As other children in his school line up for lunch on the first day of kindergarten, ben demands to be at the beginning of the line. he is most likely receiving parenting

In this case, ben is most likely receiving Permissive parenting

Permissive parenting tend to operate based on loving behavior, but they often do not require much responsibility/expectation from their children.
This will very likely make the children become spoiled and highly dependant on other people to get what they want

5th to stop bare arms