Hello I am a 14 year old male and I am single and looking to change that can anyone help?

“A person can change, at the moment when the person wishes to change. I like people who put in effort, even if they’re not good at it.”

~ohshc

Even though that’s from a show the quote moved me because at times I wish to change myself too and when you want to put in the effort to do so your then your one step closer at being the person you want to be