Below you will find guidelines for resolving a conflict. choose any one guide line and discuss how that guide line will assist you in resolving conflict. write a four- to five-sentence paragraph about how the selected guide line will assist you in resolving a conflict.    guidelines for conflict resolution:     a. agree on the rules of discussion before you begin; stick to the rules.    b. don't let the discussion get out of control; good decisions are rarely made in anger.  c. mutually agree on the time and place to discuss a serious issue.  d. remain on the topic, don't bring up past hurts.  e. give equal time for both sides to be heard.  f. listen to each other; the feelings being expressed are real.  g. be prepared to compromise, no one gets to have his/her way every time.  h. no threatening allowed, either verbal or physical. if you are in a situation where there is violence get out and get .  i. never assume you know what the other person is thinking. you first need to check out the assumption in plain language.

Read this excerpt from through the looking-glass by lewis carroll. "you might make a joke on that,” said the little voice close to her ear: "something about ‘you would if you could,’ you know.” "don't tease so,” said alice, looking about in vain to see where the voice came from; "if you're so anxious to have a joke made, why don't you make one yourself? ” the little voice sighed deeply: it was very unhappy, evidently, and alice would have said something pitying to comfort it, "if it would only sigh like other people! ” she thought. but this was such a wonderfully small sigh, that she wouldn't have heard it at all, if it hadn't come quite close to her ear. the consequence of this was that it tickled her ear very much, and quite took off her thoughts from the unhappiness of the poor little creature. what question should a reader ask to clarify what is happening in the story? who or what is the voice speaking to alice? when will alice attempt to share a joke? what secret will alice share with the new character? why do whispers tickle the listener?

Read the excerpt from “strychnine in the soup,” in which mr. mulliner explains the ending of a mystery novel to a bar patron who is anxious to know the conclusion of the story. “the plumber forgot his snake and had to go back for it,” explained mr. mulliner. ‘‘i trust that this revelation will prove sedative.” “i feel a new man,” said the draught stout. “i’d have lain awake worrying about that murder all night.” explain how a student who did not know the meaning of sedative could infer its definition?

You would use hexagonal writing to write about literature refine your purpose study your subject from all angles write about a personal experience