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Mixed Messages
A mixed message conveys two different meanings because either body language does not match words, or tone of
volce does not match words. If you send a mixed message, the receivers of your message will be unsure of what
exactly your message is. They may decide to believe your words, or they may decide to believe your actions or tone.
Part 1: Analyzing Mixed Messages
Directions: Read each scenario. Underline the words in the scenario that describe a message being sent by the
speaker. On the lines that follow, identify the two messages being sent.
1. Anne's mother clenched her teeth. She turned away, but not quick enough to keep Anne from seeing her
smile. When she started to speak, the first words came out with a small, muffled gurgle. "Anne, I do not
think that joke is funny;" said her mother.
2. Derek was almost out the door to play basketball when his mom reminded him that he promised to carry
some things in from the car for her. Derek rolled his eyes, threw his things on the bench, and stomped to the
car. His mom asked if he was upset. "No, of course not" said Derek, through clenched teeth as he slammed
the car door