100 points for whoever answers this question. Which sentence provides the best clue to Kim's perspective on her father's death in Seedfolks?

The candles and the incense sticks, lit the day before to mark his death anniversary, had burned out.
After the evening feast, past midnight, I'd been wakened by my mother's crying.
I had no such memories to cry over.
All his life in Vietnam my father had been a farmer.