What about your story is unique? When you look at your life, and see how far you’ve come and all that you've accomplished, you should be able to pinpoint specific experiences that really defined you. These are called defining moments. Write out a defining moment in your life. Why is it so important? Can others relate to elements of your story, or are you alone in your experience? Identify some ways your story might not be relatable. What is one idea from the past few lessons that has helped you find new meaning from your life story? How can you begin to think of your past experiences as a launching pad to new relationships? How can you balance being vulnerable enough to connect with someone on a very personal level with the risk of oversharing or overwhelming them? Which side should you error on?