What does the phrase “I wanted you to see what real courage is, instead of getting tag idea that courage is a man with a gun in his hand. It’s when you know you’re licked before you begin but you begin anyway and you’d see it through no matter what”mean?

as for symbolic actions, the narrator's tearing down the wallpaper in an attempt to find the "woman" in the wallpaper represents her struggle to retain or regain her sanity.   the wallpaper has been part of her confinement and by her tearing it down, she is freeing herself from that confinement.

wheres the options? i dont think this can be solved with out the options

nobody is fidda write a whole essay