What should be asked to test self-respect? what are my positive characteristics and talents? what sorts of mistakes have i made in the past? do i respect myself and the people around me? would the person i admire most respect my actions?

Explanation:

What are my positive characteristics and talents is one of the good question to assess the self-respect. The answer of this question will reveal all your positive aspects of you found by others.

What sort of mistake have I made in the past? This is once again an observatory question where it reveals the pointers which you need to correct and it is closely related to self-respect.

Do I respect myself and the people around me? Yes, once again this question reveals how you move with others and once again connected to the self-respect.

The last question seems to be irrelevant to self-respect.