Why is it hard to find love?
Why is it hard to be happy?

well it matters what side your on.

Explanation:

Many times, its hard to find love because your at the bottom of your social pyramid, and those around you would prefer to couple at the top. Other times its because you don't place in the same effort as those around you due to your social isolation, while of course the love spectrum will favor those who are most social, and hunger for attention. Many times we find not being in a relationship to be the cause of depression or unhappiness which usually is something that happens when your in your phase of maturation, and still not even close to finding a mate. Instances like these will force depressants to come out of your amygdala. With times like these we still have to notice that the marriage rate is still quite high, and our present situations still are yet to foreshadow our future.

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