What is the meaning of the quote, “...citizenship in a family entails certain standards beyond individual whims"?

this is for my family studies class of someone could help me i would appreciate

In 1996 california legalized the medical use of marijuana, even though it was still illegal under federal law. californians angel raich and diane monson used medical marijuana that they grew on their own property. when federal agents destroyed their plants, monson and raich sued, claiming, among other things, that the commerce clause did not permit the federal government to regulate activities that took place in their back yards and homes. the federal government argued that since consuming locally-grown marijuana for medical purposes affects the interstate market for marijuana, the federal government may regulate—and prohibit—such consumption. whose argument should prevail?

Gregory was caught smoking marijuana on his school’s campus during lunch. this is not the first time gregory has violated the school’s drug-free policy. his principal has decided to expel him, and he may face fines and time in a juvenile detention facility. gregory faced consequences when he was sent to juvenile detention after repeatedly violating the school’s drug-free policy.

Explain what is meant by the phrase “ethical behavior”.