I am scared of Spiders, what's in the ocean, people not responding and thinking I am weird, something watching me, and I am scared of the dark sometimes ((I KNOW I KNOW I AM CHILDISH))...What are these phobias called??? And how do I cope with them???

Fear of Spiders-Arachnopobia
Fear Of What’s In The Ocean-Thalassophobia
Fear Of The Dark-Nyctophobia
Your best bet would be to try all of these things out like have a 1 to 1 with your fears. The best way to get over your fears is to conquer them

They probably don't understand either 1. what the nightmare is about or 2. his anxiety and stress

Dis correct. the rest of the answers are definitely wrong.without the basic needs like food, shelter and love , one will remain trapped in trying to fulfil these needs first which means putting food on the table and struggling to pay bills. it is impossible to achieve self actualization when without the basic needs which is the base.