I had to make and essay about love and pain tell me what u think and tis also sum advice ig Losing someone you love is the hardest thing in the world to deal with Its a kind of pain that you
physically feel all over your body. Itʼs suffering of the worst kind. To make things even worse, it
seems like no one else understands how youʼre feeling.
In the first few weeks and months people gather round, cry with you, listen to your stories, bring over
food, check in on you often and help with all those little things you canʼt bring yourself to think about.
But after about 3 months the crowd thins out. People seem to go back to their normal lives and
expect that youʼll do the same. You get your first real taste of being alone in the grief. Over the first
year you gear yourself up and survive the first birthday, anniversary, vacation, and holidays since
your loved one left u
Then the real, true suffering begins. You realize that you have to keep doing it. Surviving the first
anniversary of all those events was only the beginning and you somehow have to keep going.
Thatʼs why NO ONE can tell you how to deal with it. Donʼt let anyone tell you when itʼs time
to get rid of your loved ones things, or when itʼs time to stop crying You
have to figure out for yourself, when your ready to make changes. Your grief belongs to you.
Dont let anything hurt you and if you want to love them forever even though there not yours then do that