Personal development is a process in which you

gain skills and traits that you in your relationships with others
grow physically stronger to become mentally stronger
share your inner feelings to become more emotionally adjusted
increase your character to match how you personally feel inside

well god made humans for male and female to merry each other, and he does not hate gays he condemns it, and that's also the example jehovah's witnesses follow, we don't get involved with arguments or hate gays but we just condemn it. to find more information, you can go to our website jw.org and find more answers to your question just by tapping of the top right search bar and asking your question and then it will show you all the free bible publications that fit with you question, this site is entirely free and there fo anyone's usage.   ( i do not own jw.org)