Your older sister sometimes drinks when she hangs out with her friends. you don't like how she acts when she's been drinking, and you're worried that she'll lose her college scholarship if her grades continue to drop. what is the best way to discuss your concerns?
a threaten that you'll never speak to her again if she doesn't stop drinking
b use i-statements to explain your concerns for her safety and her future
c tell her you think she's throwing her life away and she needs to clean up her act
d avoid her whenever she drinks, hoping she'll figure out your frustrations and quit