How do you not be a failure in life pls help i am strugleing mentally

Do what makes you happy. sometimes being alone is the best thing you can do so connect with yourself some more, make sure than before anyone else is good that you are too

Major sources of stress, such as a death or divorce, problems in family relationships, job loss, school, and substance abuse, can trigger or aggravate some mental disorders in some people. but not everyone who goes through those things develops a mental illness