Should adults ever make negative statement to children, such as “stop hitting” or “no pushing”? why or why not?

Ittle jake is strongly bonded to his mother. in fact, he has a difficult time letting her out of his sight. when his mother must leave him in daycare to go to work, the daycare provider calls because jake is inconsolable. since being placed in daycare, jake has also refused to sleep alone. what disorder do jake's symptoms suggest?