What would a nonviolent "social order" be based on

Ahh power, lowest slaves, middle merchants, etc... you know how it goes

It would be based on a set of norms, institutions and customs that regulate the lives of individuals in their legal, social and moral relations to each other and between them and the government at any time in a politically organized and policed society

Explanation:

A nonviolent social order is formed by patterns of reciprocity and affinity. Their maintenance is guaranteed through the moral coercion that individuals obey. Every society exercises control over its members. This control is a reciprocal exchange between beliefs and values with what is desirable. This manifests itself in the form of rituals, rites, routines and socialization processes.