What is the best way to come out?

come out the way u feel is right.

Explanation:

my parents don't accept me, but I came out to my counselor by redecorating a nametag we were all given and I colored it with the trans flag and instead of putting my "male" name, I put my female name, so it said, "Hello, my name is Kelsee." then I put my pronouns like she/her under it, and they accepted me. Just do what feels right for u

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