What were some of the reasons the american revolution was able to avoid the violence associated with the french revolution?

1) What were some of the successes of the Revolution’s emphasis on equality?  Failures?
In some places women could vote, and be educated because it was their duty to raise the future of the states. There was separation between church and state. Slavery still existed, but the Quakers created an anti-slavery society. Some places women could still not vote. 
2) What happened to slavery in most Northern states following the conclusion of the war?
They either abolished slavery, or provided for the gradual emancipation of blacks. However, even though they weren't enslaved, they were still segregated.