When you drop soap on the ground does the ground get dirty or does the soap get clean?

No, and no.  In fact, the consequences are exactly opposite to your description.  

When you drop soap on the ground, the soap ... which had been clean ... gets dirty, and the ground ... which had been dirty ... gets clean.

when it gains or loses electrons

there is no correct list among the choices you've provided.

the list might look something like this:

-- baby human

-- piccolo

-- flute

-- soprano singer

-- trumpet

-- tenor singer

-- trombone

-- baritone singer

-- baritone horn

-- bass singer

-- tuba

since i had to make up the list myself, i made it easy on myself, and i didn't try to shuffle the string instruments and woodwinds into it too.