The poem is organized around a contrast of two kinds of lovers: the ''laity'' (8) and, as their implied opposite, the priesthood. are these terms literal or metaphorical? what is the essential difference between their two kinds of love? how, according to the speaker, does their behavior differ when they must separate from each other? what is the motivation of the speaker in this ''valediction''?

In the poem "A Valediction: Forbidding Mourning" by John Donne, the opposing terms are metaphorical. Donne is stating that their love is spiritual, not just physical. While the "laity" type of love is formed by people, the "priesthood" type is considered an unseen force. Laity love requires physical interaction, while priesthood love lasts beyond the human senses. The author states that because their love is spiritual, and they are one, when they separate they can only expand it.

He urges her to not cry because any sign of mourning will welcome outsiders to interrupt their love, and see his parture as temporary. Donne wrote this to express in faith in the long-distance relationship, and that she should not mourn him leaving.