I put my question in the document linked below, Thank you

given all the practice it takes to become proficient at writing up ncoer's, , awards, and conselings as well as learning how to become a well rounded   leader , and managing different types of people

it´s related to his charming character.

beauty is not everything, although we can joke that girls only care about the physical or material aspect, the truth is that a real woman looks at more important things, besides intelligence and personality, there are other attitudes that make irresistible to men who are 'unattractive'.

for example develop your sense of humor.