As a couple completes phase two of sensate focus therapy, they are instructed to

They are instructed to "slowly start sexual action, proceeding with non-demand pleasuring as they advance". 
Sensate focus is a term for the most part connected with an set of particular sexual activities for couples or for individuals. The term was presented by Masters and Johnson, and was focused on expanding individual and relational attention to self and other's needs. Every member is urged to concentrate on their own varied sense experience, as opposed to consider climax to be the sole objective of sex.

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