Mary is a 30-year-old musician who is very dedicated and successful in her work as a teacher in a local high school and as a part-time member of local musical groups. since her marriage five years ago, which ended in divorce after six months, she has dated very few men. she often worries that her time is "running out" for establishing a good relationship with a man, getting married, and raising a family. her friends tell her that she gets way too anxious around men, and that she needs to relax a little in general.