Lena often expresses her anger in private but never in public. her husband leonard sometimes expresses his anger in public but would be very embarrassed to be caught crying in public. this example illustrates:

It displays culturally defined display rules. The culture often discourage women from showing their anger in public, encourages men, but also discourage men from showing off tears in the presence of others, as this would depict them as weak.

The lutherans i believe. i hope this : )