The former supreme court justice sandra day o'connor voted to allow a christmas display on public property that included a nativity scene but voted to prohibit city governments from having displays that had only a nativity scene. this indicates that:

I believe the answer is: we are both a secular and a nonsecular society at the same time

A society is considered as a secular society if there is a clear separation between religious institutes and the government.
Currently, united states still hasn't develop full characteristic of either secular and nonsecular society and still stucked in the middle on some issues.

Since the time there were born it depends, there's fun violence, abuse, r@pe, kidnappings, threats, hostages ect.