Which lines in this excerpt from act iii of shakespeare’s romeo and juliet best show lord capulet’s oppressive and authoritarian nature?

capulet: things have fall'n out, sir, so unluckily,
that we have had no time to move our daughter:
look you, she loved her kinsman tybalt dearly,
and so did i: well, we were born to die.
'tis very late, she'll not come down to-night:
i promise you, but for your company,
i would have been a-bed an hour ago.

paris: these times of woe afford no time to woo.
madam, good night: commend me to your daughter.

lady capulet: i will, and know her mind early to-morrow;
to-night she is mew'd up to her heaviness.

capulet: sir paris, i will make a desperate tender
of my child's love: i think she will be ruled
in all respects by me; nay, more, i doubt it not.
wife, go you to her ere you go to bed;
acquaint her here of my son paris' love;
and bid her, mark you me, on wednesday next—
but, soft! what day is this?