if any lady can help me with this when a guy comes to you to talk what do you like to talk about and how would you want to be asked

I’m a man and i just ask the woman what i think they would like. usually it works but everyone is different

If you’re meaning “asked out” try going with a simple approach such as asking if she wants to go out to the movies, to eat at a nice place, or to hangout (for an option that doesn’t involve money). If you want a girl to be intrigued by you, ask her some questions about what she likes to do for fun, what her fav foods are, or if she has any fav music artists. Just mainly think of some conversation starters & don’t overthink!! Just talk to her like you would if she was a friend you’ve known forever.

What you should re write your question it doesn’t make sense